The Broken Promise of Connectivity

VonRainer Hofmann

June 25, 2025

When the internet first stepped onto the world stage, it was hailed as a tool of liberation. It promised nothing less than the democratization of knowledge, a voice for the voiceless, the building of a global village of enlightened citizens. In some ways, all of that has come true. Today we carry pocket-sized computers that grant us access to medical research, ancient literature, and the collected stories of humankind. And yet, the promise of depth has become an abyss: the net today resembles a battlefield for attention, dominated by algorithms that prioritize outrage over insight and reflect a fragmented image of ourselves. The contradiction is obvious - never have we been so connected, and yet so alone. Never so informed - and yet so disoriented. Never so entertained - and yet so empty. Studies show that with the spread of smartphones, anxiety disorders, depression, and loneliness have drastically increased. Birth and marriage rates are declining. Political debates are degenerating into tribal spectacles, where every nuance is swallowed by the next viral outburst. Even our relationship to truth has suffered - how are we to distinguish fact from fiction when every headline, every click, rewards sensation?

We have handed over our attention to push notifications, outsourced our memories to search engines, replaced our social skills with emojis. The result? A culture of superficiality in which deep thinking has become the exception and genuine connection a rarity. Even our search for meaning in life now seems watered down - how often do we scroll instead of acting, creating, living? Our relationships are increasingly detached from closeness, our evenings structured by streams instead of conversations, our everyday lives governed by calendar apps instead of inner direction. The private has become public, the public a stage where self-presentation often matters more than insight or empathy. We communicate more than ever - and yet say less and less to each other. Even our education suffers under this fragmentation. We consume TED Talks and online courses at lightning speed - yet are left with the feeling of being lost in an endless stream of information. Access to knowledge has never been greater, and yet we often lack grounding, focus, depth. We live in a world where everything is available - but almost nothing has meaning anymore.

And yet: this is not about demonizing technology. The net connects us with loved ones, gives dissidents a voice, drives innovation. But we have forgotten how to measure, how to set boundaries. Forgotten to ask: does this technology serve life - or just consumption, control, and reflex? Perhaps it is time not to leave the digital world, but to understand it anew. What if we turned off notifications, gave our evenings back to conversation instead of scrolling, made our neighborhood more important than the global feed? What if we allowed ourselves one day each week without a screen? And what if we asked ourselves with every digital action, “Does this bring me closer to what really matters?” Before every technological innovation, we should ask: does it strengthen our community? Does it make us freer - or tie us to systems we can no longer understand? In our enthusiasm for progress, we have too often overlooked what gets lost along the way: mindfulness. Calm. Depth. Closeness.

Perhaps the answer does not lie in a return to the analog world, but in a posture of discernment. What if we approached artificial intelligence and digital tools not with blind faith, but with thoughtful scrutiny? What if we saw the internet not as a monolithic system, but as a customizable tool that respects our diversity? The internet has not destroyed humanity. It has merely amplified what was already there - our brilliance as well as our self-destruction. The essential question remains: who controls whom? Do we control technology - or does it control us? Perhaps the most radical act of our time is not the next tweet, not the next upgrade. But the look into another person’s face - with no screen in between.

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