Scent, Diplomacy - and the Sentence ‘How Many Wives Do You Have?’: A Moment That Says Everything

byRainer Hofmann

November 13, 2025

It was one of those moments when the Oval Office seemed to develop its own gravity. No heavy speech, no orchestrated protocol, but a scene that felt disturbing, revealing, and almost intimate all at once. Donald Trump receives Syrian President Ahmad al-Sharaa - and instead of the usual diplomatic pleasantries, he reaches for something that looks like a prop from his own theater world: a bottle of his perfume. Trump holds the bottle like a symbol of his personal empire, makes no big pause, but simply sprays his guest. The gesture is so casual that it immediately feels like a statement. As if he were saying: In this room, I make the rules, and I begin with my own scent. Then he hands him a second bottle, supposedly “for your wife,” and immediately follows up with the question that tilts the moment into an entirely different realm: “How many wives do you have?”

Al-Sharaa replies calmly: one. Trump laughs dryly, pats him on the shoulder, and remarks, half joke, half worldview: “With you guys, you never know.” A sentence that reveals everything in the smallest of spaces - the cultural projections, the self-image of the host, the underlying impulse for power pulsing behind the whole scene. It is the first visit of a Syrian president to the United States in decades, historically charged and politically delicate. Yet the scene shows that Trump does not see such moments as acts of state, but as performances. A scent as a gesture, as a symbol of his brand, as an expression of closeness and dominance at once. A sentence about wives that would serve as a textbook example of the opposite of restraint in every diplomatic academy, yet here it is taken as self-evident, because the room that produces it follows only one rule: its own logic.

One might think it was just a bizarre incident. But it is more. It is the compressed essence of this presidency: politics becomes a performance, diplomacy a show, cultural subtleties mere cues that can be twisted at will. The scene feels almost like a window into the tectonic shifts taking place behind the curtains. The Syrian president, isolated for decades, now received in Washington, caught between cautious diplomatic reopening and personal staging. Trump, in turn, uses the moment to define the stage in his own way - with a gift no one needed and a question everyone heard. Thus an image emerges that lingers: two men, a perfume, a sentence about wives - a brief moment that tells more than many summit declarations. Not because it is spectacular, but because it shows, without disguise, how this political era works. A space where boundaries blur, the private and the official merge, and even a diplomatic visit becomes a scene one reads twice to make sure one has not misheard.

In the end, the question is not how many wives someone has. What remains is the realization of how much can be learned from a single, seemingly incidental moment about power, gestures, and the kind of diplomacy that shapes world affairs these days. A brief breath in the Oval Office - and suddenly everyone is talking about it. A scent, a laugh, a sentence. And everything hangs in the air.

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Georg Laufs
Georg Laufs
6 hours ago

Einfach nur der Wahnsinn. Danke für die Information

Simone
Simone
4 hours ago

Peinlich, einfach nur peinlich. Ein Moment des Fremdschämends. Nicht der erste und nicht der letzte. Bis jetzt ertragen seine Gegenüber diese Possen, irgendwann kommt er an den falschen.

Carolina
Carolina
3 hours ago

Wie reagierten denn die Umstehenden auf diesen Moment? Mich dürfte niemand einfach so einsprühen. Könnte ja sein, dass man darauf allergisch ist.

C.Sigl-Jotz
C.Sigl-Jotz
3 hours ago

Dieser Mensch ist wie man so schön sagt absolut „durch“, ich frag mich nur wie lange die Amerikaner das noch mitmachen 🤦‍♀️

Gerti Mayer
Gerti Mayer
2 hours ago

Für mich zeigt es vor allem eins – Trump ist ein primitiver Trampel: selbstbezogen, übergriffig, ohne Stil und Gefühl für Anstand und Diplomatie.

Helga M.
Helga M.
2 hours ago

Ein absoluter Dummsack an der Spitze der USA. FURCHTBAR!👊😡

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